How to Turn a Guy on

One of the questions that a plaque lady in a relationship has after a while is how to keep their guys turned on always.

You know how they say familiarity breeds contempt but this kind of situation is not permitted to linger, so what do you do when you’ve tried all you know and it doesn’t seem to be working, how do you keep your man always in the mood to be intimate with you.

Source: Mark Rosenfeld

• One thing that never goes out of fashion is understanding your partner. Observe and ask questions if need be but never act from a place of assumption because you never know what someone is really thinking or what they want without truly asking them directly or indirectly.
• Once you have gotten the information you are searching for, you can then begin to put your knowledge and resources to use.
•  Share your fantasy with your partner always. Learn to normalize both parties talking about their steamy sexual fantasy, allow your imaginations run wild and paint the picture in detail without holding anything back. Let this imagination push both of you beyond your comfort zone.
• Get a new and sassy bedtime look. Spend time thinking of creative ways to show up indulging your sexual needs and that of your partner. Ditch that everyday casual, normal you look, go sassy, crazy and all the way.
• Be the boss of foreplay, research has shown that men like a lot of foreplay before sex, so get on learning and give it your best shot.
• Learn how to seduce him subtly, sometimes the magic is in the slow and steady play. Allow the button on your dress to lose up a little, let your shirt fall off your shoulder, play the game well after all you are the master of the game.
• Be confident and bold not just in your sexuality but in everything you do. The notion that men like to be there for a damsel in distress might be true but it can be easily draining, men also enjoy seeing their women confident and absolutely in charge of herself or her world generally. This doesn’t mean you won’t need your man but it means you are reliable.
• Lead the way in your sexual adventure, you don’t always have to wait for your partner to be the one to bring it up and make suggestions. There is no shame in you taking the lead in your sexual desires and adventure, take control of the trajectory.
• Turn your man on by playfully grabbing his ass, make your personal momentary stress ball. Don’t press too hard but softly massage your hands into it.
• Men also like cuddling they may act tough but there is the baby in them that you must search out and spoil with cuddling and body finger traces.
• Walking into the room naked might seem old-school but it can never be outdated, it still works its magic as the time of old.

Finally understand everything mentioned above requires teamwork and effort, you want to make sure that both parties are willing to work this out and put in the effort where is needed at every point. I hope these tips works and you start to enjoy all-time sex adventure with your partner.