My bestie is now Into Girls

Dogbeda is my friend in fact we’ve known each other since we were in pre-school and according to me, we have been best of friends since then. 

A few weeks ago my friend came back to Ghana, she travelled 2 years ago to Canada for her masters while I stayed back to pursue my fashion business which has always been my day one hobby, you can also call it my escape plan as I totally have no love for school and books. 

Anyway, Dogbeda has been back for 3 weeks now and we’ve only seen them three times, first was at the airport, the second was at her welcome party which I took the honours of planning and sincerely speaking the third one is the journey I’m about to make right now.

She asked me to meet up with her at one of our favourite spots years ago. 

I am sure you are wondering why bestie is in town and we’ve only seen just twice and that’s with the crowd, wonder no more I will explain, so about some month back prior to Eda (short for Dogbeda) returned she started sending awkward love text at intervals. 

At first, I thought my bestie was missing me really bad until one faithful day she sent me a video of her touching herself with a note requesting for me to do the same if I really love her like I always claimed.

I was perturbed so I put a video call through wondering what was wrong or did someone hack her phone, only for Eda to pick up saying all sort of and asking why I wasn’t dressed for the occasion, what occasion I asked because I needed to know. I love you she went on again and again.

Recently, I discovered I am into girls she said and there is no other person she would rather be with than me.  

The videos and love notes kept coming in for months and at that point, I knew what was up so I did the only thing I could think of which was to stop picking up her calls and only calling back when I was with my folks or my boyfriend to avoid stories that touch.  

Her coming back caught me by surprise but still, she is my friend regardless of our different sexual orientations.

Her night party was a night I would never forget.  I was so consumed in the euphoria of her return that I didn’t see what happened next.

She told me she needed to talk to me, I followed her to the room only for her to attack my lips with hers like a madwoman, thankfully for me, her mom came calling at the right time.

I sincerely don’t know what would have happened to me if her mother hadn’t come looking for her. I took time to study her well and I realize how much she has changed, she looks more built and stronger now, well that’s expected she has always loved the gym. 

Eda and I haven’t seen or spoken since that unfortunate day. She called me two days ago to asked if we could see to talk about a few things, I really don’t want to go but I have to go she is my best friend, I miss her and want to be there for her but how can I without selling myself out?

I respect her decisions, but does it mean I should flow with her, even I don’t want to be bi-sexual? I love my boyfriend and I am not tired of f*vking a d*ck