The question of whether sex before marriage is a deal-breaker or not is not a Yes or No question, and the reason is that our values differ as humans. What we consider acceptable is different from what the other party think is acceptable.
For some people, it’s a deal-breaker while for others it’s not. This is a question each individual has to answer on their own based on what they consider good or bad.
For some individuals sex, before marriage is a deal-breaker, it surely stems from their belief system and how they generally view the world at large.
Source: Damilola Mike-Bamiloye
Sex before marriage is a personal decision you make for yourself and not for others. It’s a good thing if your choose to wait before marriage to have sex, this is not to judge anyone.
This is basically to say that you should own up to your beliefs and don’t let anyone talk you out of doing what you don’t want to do.
Whatever your reasons for wanting to wait for him/her, don’t shy away from them, be open to your partner about your choice. Be confident in your own decision.
I’m not going to sit here and tell you it’s easy to wait till after marriage before you have sex, the truth is it’s not easy.
Have heard a lot of people say sex is a way to show that you love someone and how much they mean to you, but that’s a lie because there are various ways in which you can show love and you will be doing you and your partner a great favour by exploring other possibilities of loving one another without the involvement of sex.
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If you can abstain from sex before marriage please do and if you can’t I advise that you do you, be your true authentic self and not what people expect you to be.
Don’t be a hypocrite saying you can’t have sex before marriage with your partner, but you rather have sex with someone else (If caught in this process, it might ruin your relationship with your partner.)
Bottom one, if you want sex, go for it!
Meaning it’s up to you to decide if sex before marriage is the best choice for you as an individual and the ways you intend to own up to those decisions.
