Anal sex is quite popular now, yet it is seen as dirty. Anal sex is also sexual activity. Anal sex is the practice of inserting the penis, fingers, or a foreign object such as a vibrator into the anus for sexual pleasure. Anal sex can be a safe and pleasurable intercourse option for some people.
Read on to know more about this sexual activity that is becoming increasingly popular.
Did you just ask if they reach orgasm? Yes, and that’s because the anus is packed with loads of sensitive nerve endings some of which are connected to the genitals.
First-timers for Anal Sex
You might feel strange at first to try this out, however, before you begin make sure you and your partner have talked about it and are both willing to do this.
Does it portend any risks?
It is not without its risks, however, with the appropriate precautions, anal sex is mostly safe.
The anus cannot naturally lubricate itself because it lacks the cells to produce natural lubricants that reduce discomfort and friction-related concerns, such as skin injuries. Lack of natural lubrication increases the risk of friction-related tears in the anus and rectum.
The rectum’s lining is also thinner than that of the vagina. Some of these tears may be very small, but they still expose the skin.
Because stool that naturally contains bacteria passes through the rectum and anus when leaving the body, the bacteria can potentially invade the skin through these tears.
These tears during anal sex is a greater opportunity to spread Sexually transmitted Disease which includes Chlamydia, gonorrhoea, hepatitis, HIV, and herpes. Many of these STDs have no cure.
Anal sex is not likely to cause haemorrhoids, but it can irritate existing haemorrhoids for some people.
Although this is a rare complication, during anal sex, it is possible that a tear in the lining of the anus or rectum can grow larger extending beyond the bowel to other parts of the body, thereby allowing stool( which usually contains bacteria) from the bowel to other parts of the body. This is regarded as an emergency medical situation.
Minimising risks
To maximise the aforementioned risks and others not mentioned, use water-based lubricants to minimize friction-related tears, exercise caution – move slowly or stop anal sex when your partner experiences pain or discomfort, you might want to use new condoms if you are moving from anal sex to vaginal sex, to prevent cross-infection.
How to practice safe anal sex
Anal sex can be an excellent way to have fun with your partner. You just need to give this new sexual adventure a bit of planning and preparation. As long as the two of you are on the same page about what you’d like to do and how you can enjoy this experience mutually.
1. Talk with your partner
Anal sex shouldn’t be a surprise request mid-tryst, and no “Oops! It slipped!” excuses here — that’d be a major violation of trust and consent. If you’re interested in trying anal sex, have a chat with your partner. Just out with it one day, and let them know you’re curious.
2. Consider an enema
Worried that doing the dirty will, ahem, be dirty? It’s possible. If you want things squeaky clean down there, you can use an enema to clean the lower half of your rectum after a bowel movement, but it’s not necessary. You can find these products at most drug stores and pharmacies.
3. Cut your nails
Reduce your risk of cutting or scratching your partner by cutting your nails. Long nails might tear the thin, delicate tissue of the anus, which could lead to bleeding.
It also raises the risk of spreading bacteria that could cause infections. Be sure to wash your hands well and scrub under your nails after anal sex, too, notably before inserting them into the vagina or mouth.
4. Wear a condom or dental dam
People who have anal sex have a higher risk trusted source of sharing STIs, but using a condom or dental dam reduces that risk.
If you want to move from the anus to the vagina, be sure to use a new condom. If you’re not using a condom, wash the penis or a toy if you’re using that well before inserting it into the vagina.
5. Get in position
Many people find resting on their stomachs with their partners behind them works well for anal sex. Missionary can work, too, as long as you adjust the point of entry. Doggy style is also an easy position. The receptive partner can slowly back up onto the insertive partner to control depth and pace.
6. Go slow and check-in with your partner during
Don’t jump into anal sex cold. Give yourself 10 to 15 minutes of foreplay to warm up. This helps you and the anal sphincter relax, which can make the experience more pleasurable.
7. Accept that there will likely be some poop involved
This is, quite simply, a reality of anal sex.
8. Clean up afterwards or before you do anything else
Although your anus and rectum are cleaner than you might think.
