When do I leave After a Casual Sex?
When do I leave after casual sex, was the first notification pop up I received from Twitter after I woke from a nap on Tuesday afternoon and I began to wonder and research on it then I realize that just like so many things in the world we live in now there is no hard and fast rule answer to the question, it all depends on you.
What is your interest rate in this fellow, do you want this to be a one-time thing or do you hope that someday it develops into something more, the guy you are with what kind of person is he, are you comfortable with what decision you make?
Source: Clit Talk
The answers you give to the questions above are what literally determine if you stay after casual sex or you leave immediately.
A whole lot of ladies are more focused on how they are perceived rather than the outcome or intent of their actions.
More often than not when we first meet someone we are likely to project our hope and fear unto them, so you really want to be careful that your decision to leave immediately or stay after casual sex is not a function of your own fear.
Although some people consider leaving immediately after sex casual or not offensive, it also basically screams I am ashamed of what I just did or I just used you.
This might not be what you really mean but whatever the case maybe ensure you speak or give a good reason for the need to leave immediately, this way you have honoured the other person and along the line gotten what you want.
Staying or leaving immediately after casual sex as mentioned before is totally up to you and the other party but if a situation arises and you need an excuse to leave the environment immediately after sex below are reasonable excuses you can come up with;
- Talk about fake previous appointment you suddenly remember and now need to attend.
- Come up with the “my boyfriend” excuse
- If it’s a week day then this is a safe place to talk about your need to get to work either as an employee or as an entrepreneur.
- There is always that one friend who can be your hard core partner in crime, send a text to fake an emergency call.
- If the casual sex happens in your home then telling the guy to leave immediately because your parents are on their way is another perfect excuse.
- You can as well be bold and honest enough to tell him to his face that you need to leave immediately and that you mean no disrespect but the sex part is all there is to what you both have.
Whatever you do, be the real queen and own up to your decisions and while at it have fun.
