Toddlers Tantrums and how to Handle them as Caregivers and Parents
The toddler years will test your patience as parents; as they near age two, toddlers undergo developmental changes that make them act stubborn because they are curious about the world and want to explore. They are completely normal, which means there is nothing wrong with your parenting skills.
As a caregiver, you must find ways to handle toddlers’ tantrums to limit their behaviour without stressing yourself.
Source: Playful Pathways
Act as a model for your toddler by teaching them respect; practising effective discipline is essential at this stage.
Do not speak loudly or beat your toddler, instead communicate with them so they can understand why you denied their request; rather than saying no, please explain why you cannot grant your toddler’s request and reward your child with a treat when they listen to your instructions.
Explain to your child why some things are not negotiable when you give in to your toddler’s demand; they tend to believe that tantrums will get them what they want, so you have to stand your ground, but if you are in public, take your child to a place where he won’t be able to disturb others and wait until your child is calm
There is a good chance that your child will resist bedtime; when it is 45 minutes before bedtime, get your child to shower and change their pyjamas, switch off the television, turn on the dim light and read stories. Avoid a fight by allowing your child to choose the pyjamas and storybook
Some toddlers can be picky when it comes to food, so you have to let them choose what they want to eat. You can also involve them in the meal preparation so they can be interested in eating the food.
Nowadays, toddlers are drawn to technology, so you have to detach your child from mobile devices and let them understand that it is a privilege not an entitlement, by setting rules. Instead of giving your child a mobile device to appease them, involve them in other playful activities.
As parents, try to avoid anything that triggers your child to know the limitations of your child and give your toddlers two options to pick from when they act in defence to your instruction; speak to them firmly about your instructions.
