Wearing white to a wedding has always been considered forbidden for ladies. It is seen as rude and tacky, and in the opinion of many, it is a ploy to upstage the bride. However, what of the men, do the same rules also bind them?
Can men wear white to a wedding?
If we are talking full white ensemble here, then this may break your hearts, but you are not allowed to wear that either, guys. No one, whether male, female or any other identity, is allowed to wear white.
Source: Gentleman’s Gazette
In many cultures, a guest wearing white to a wedding is seen as an attempt to sabotage the couple’s happiness. It could also mean that you needed to be raised properly.
Why? Well, if you were raised properly, you would have been schooled in proper wedding etiquette. You must realize certain rules govern what you can wear to a wedding, so without mincing any more words, let us get into the dos and don’ts for men at any formal wedding.
Dos and Don’ts for Men’s Wedding Attire
Rule #1
You should never wear full white to a wedding; emphasis on never. It is considered rude.
Rule #2
Avoid wearing the same color as the bridal or groom’s train, except you are a part of it. You do not want to be embarrassed now, would you?
Rule #3
The three S’s are expressly forbidden: Shorts, slippers, and sandals. This can only be worn at a beach wedding.
Rule #4
Do not wear any outfit that may bring too much attention, for example, funny-looking ties, coats, or huge top hats. The day is not for you; try to remember that.
Rule #5
Follow the color codes on your wedding invitation; they are not there for decoration. Follow them to the letter; they are there for a reason.
Rule #6
If in doubt, you can always ask: It’s okay to call the couple and ask for suggestions. They will appreciate the courtesy and alleviate your worries.
When white is A-okay
There are certain situations when wearing white is considered acceptable. Perhaps the bridal party chooses to stray from the traditional white color. They may want to follow the unique trend and ask their guests to wear white instead. In that case, wearing white is perfectly fine.
Another scenario would be wearing a white dress shirt underneath your suit. So far as the suit isn’t white, and you keep your suit on, there should not be a problem. Let’s say that you have a multicolored shirt with a hint of white on it. Since white is not the primary color, you’re good to go.
It would help if you remembered that these rules are not in existence to make you uncomfortable. There are so many other beautiful colors to choose from, you must not wear white. Staying away from white for just one day will not kill you.
Not wearing white to a wedding is a basic etiquette everyone should be familiar with. It demonstrates courtesy to the couple and their family. Truly, as good guests and friends, it is the least you can do.
