According to a survey in 2007, 70 per cent of women would rather have chocolate than sex. Shocking? It is said that many wives settle for sex just to please their husbands so that they stop pressuring them.
The female and male gender are wired differently. While the female might want romance, the male gender wants sex. The research argued that sex is the topmost important way husbands feel close to wives.
So, when a husband is not satisfied with the amount of sex in marriage or lacks sex in marriage, this may pave way for a myriad of other sins and marital complications.
Wives want a faithful husband regardless, while the husband desires sexual satisfaction whenever the need arises
A woman who has been married for 34 years said she “likes to cuddle but her husband wants to make love, I like to talk, he wants to make love. I like to share time; he wants to make love.”
A just wedded lady said men want a woman who acts like a lady in public and a hooker at night. “He wanted me to flirt and tease, to be seductive and want him with wild abandon.”
She said her husband believed in the cliché, “A good wife needs to be an angel at home and a devil in the bed.”
Does my husband want the light on when we are making love Sounds familiar? Many women subscribe to having the light turned off when making love, why? sometimes (often) it is to hide their bodies.
“My thing are big, I don’t have a flat tummy, I just don’t like what I see in the mirror. So, I turned off the light when I want to dress up and if I can, I don’t dress in his presence. And when making love with my husband. But he likes the light on.
But he would always turn on the lights because according to him, he likes to see my naked body.” This is because men love to be stimulated visually.
For intending couple, sex in marriage isn’t always romantic, most times, it is done out of a sense of duty. Since most women prefer chocolate to sex, the husband can decide to spice it up by bringing chocolate, and roses to meet the needs of his sweet wife (talk, romance, cuddle), before the lovemaking.
