I was listening to davido’s song love is sweet when Tunde the love of my life entered the room and I noticed he avoided looking at me again.
This has been going on for like two days now. Tunde that can’t take his eyes off me before is just totally ignoring me like I don’t exist anymore.
I tried calling Him maybe he would turn and look at me but he only answered while still avoiding eye contact, at that moment I just told myself I need to get to the bottom of this. I’m supposed to marry this man in like 2 months.
I got up from where I was on the bed walked up to him and called his name twice (Tunde, Tunde) only for Oga to face me and I could see and feel so much anger radiating out of him. I’m like okay this is good, anger is better than ignoring.
So I asked him like the dutiful fiancée that I am. Baby what happened why are you so angry, his response was something would never have expected.
It’s all your fault mercy he said to me, my fault how? The only thing I have done these past days is trying to be an amazing wife to be by giving you space and making sure everything you need is available for you even though you’ve been ignoring me.
Please tell me Tunde what exactly I have done wrong other than cook for you, clean up after you, and pleasure you.
I have been here for two days and the only thing I have gotten from you is hostility. So please educate me, how am I the cause of your anger and grumpiness.
The next four words that came out of his mouth knocked the wind out of me; I was rendered speechless for 10 minutes. “I slept with Jennifer,” he said.
I couldn’t wrap my mind around what I just heard and I wish badly that I was hearing him wrong. So I asked again Tunde what happened and again the man that I’m to marry in 2 months look at me and said: “I slept with Jennifer”.
Like are we talking about my Jenny? He said yes Jenny your cousin.
Wow, that’s just wow! When I thought we were in a good place in our relationship Tunde just had to go mess it up. Just wow!
How exactly is this fault again because I can’t remember you asking for my consent before sleeping with her?
And he goes mercy can you remember what you said to me two weeks ago?
Which is what oooo I was going to start screaming at him when I remembered what he was trying to say. But Tunde we moved past this already now.
Regardless, that happened a long time ago and I thought we moved past it and it still doesn’t give you the right to sleep with my cousin.
I’m sure you are wondering what Tunde is fussing about. So about a month ago I went to a party with some of the girls and I met this amazing guy, one thing lead to the other and we ended up having sex at the back sit of his car.
I was so ashamed of what happened that I stayed away from Tunde for a while, I finally got the courage to tell him two weeks ago but he said it was ok and that we can work through it, two days after Tunde asked me to marry him.
I said yes obviously, that’s how we started making preparation for our wedding that is supposed to take place two months from now.
So Tunde slept with my cousin to get back at me. If I had known this is what he was up to I would have said no to marrying him.
Anyways Tunde still wants to marry me but how do I stay with a man that would do such a terrible thing to me. He lied to me, went behind my back to sleep with my own cousin over something he said we can work through.
So I packed my bags and walked out of his house and his life. As for my cousin, I have plans for her ooooh. She won’t know what hit her by the time I’m done with her.
After three months of breaking off our engagement, Tunde is back calling me and begging me to take him back, that he loves me and he can’t live without me. He just needed to get back at me for breaking our trust that’s why he did what he did.
Everyone is begging on his behalf.
Guys do you think I overreacted and what should I do? Should I take him back? Or forget him and move on with my life?
