How to Make a Girl Squirt
The meaning of squirting is simple: in English, the word squirt means squirt, spray; this name is because the woman has a squirting orgasm in which she does not ejaculate from the vagina but from the urethra (the smallest hole from which commonly urine).
The liquid is not composed of pee alone; it is also a prostatic liquid that resembles the male one; its origin derives from the Skene’s glands and the paraurethral glands, which fill with liquids thanks to precise stimulation.
How to Make a Girl Squirt in 6 Steps
Step 1: Talk openly and honestly about your sexual preferences.
If you want to make your sex partner squirt, you need to know the following: Squirting should be fun for both of you. From an anatomical point of view, every woman is capable of squirting. For most women, squirting is incredibly arousing. It feels like a very intense orgasm. The whole body explodes like a waterfall if she allows it.
The most important thing is that you both communicate openly and honestly with each other. And it doesn’t matter whether you’ve just met or have been in a long-term relationship. Are you thinking about trying squirting with your partner? Speak up
Step 2: Keep your expectations open.
The key to successful squirting is overcoming the psychological hurdle. If you have the technique down, you can make any woman squirt. Your partner should be relaxed and confident. Insecurities and fears are counterproductive here. Get her out of her head and into her body. She can be entirely at peace with herself. Trust her.
What you should never do: judge them.
Even if it gets a little – well – splashy and wet. Bed sheets can be washed. If you judge her, she won’t forget it so quickly, and it will make her feel very insecure. Don’t make any jokes, either. Be unbiased, kind, and trustworthy. The fact that you’re reading this shows that you don’t judge squirting. Quite the opposite! You find it exciting and arousing. And that’s precisely how it should be.
Step 3: Vaginal or Clitoral?
Not all women reach orgasm in the same way. Some women are vaginal, others clitoral. This means you have to try to stimulate to get the squirt, the G-spot, or the clitoris.
This depends on the girl: if it’s vaginal, you focus on penetration and the G-spot. Otherwise, you focus on the clitoris. Contrary to popular belief, not all women are the same.
Some are unable to reach orgasm without stimulating the clitoris, others without the G-spot, and others, the luckiest, with both but still have greater sensitivity with one of the two. For this reason, focus on one of the two based on the woman before you.
Step 4: Get her in the mood.
You are now in the bedroom. Or somewhere else. It is essential to let go of all distractions here, too. Both psychologically in your head and in the bedroom. Because distractions can dampen the experience before it has even begun, clutter in the room would be one such dampener. Remove or hide electrical devices (especially the cell phone!).
Use aromatherapy as an arousal method. The scent of lavender induces relaxation, but the smell can also increase women’s arousal. Use candles with a lavender scent or massage oil with the same. You can also get your sex partner in the mood with an erotic massage.
No more harsh light!
Try indirect light or flickering candles to create a relaxing atmosphere. Create a sexy playlist with soft and sensual songs that you and your partner can enjoy.
Step 5: Improve your sexual performance
Improving your sexual performance is undoubtedly a way to increase your chances of success in making her come intensely.
The longer you can last in bed and consequently get less tired, the more you can make her get closer and closer to squirting orgasm.
Step 6: Focus more on the experience and less on the goal.
It’s important to you to make your partner climax or squirt. But don’t let it be the primary goal. Focus on the overall experience. Let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of your sexual experience. Women orgasm differently than men. Your partner probably won’t orgasm every time you sleep together. Try to understand this. Even the goal of making her orgasm at all costs could put her under pressure.
If your partner has never squirted before (or at least wasn’t aware of it), you’ll need more time and patience. You may need to adapt or vary your techniques. Be sure to pay attention to her reactions and talk to her. Eventually, squirting will happen. And it will be incredible! Once she squirts, she’ll want to experience it again. Take your time and enjoy the experience!
With this squirt guide, you are well prepared. Now it’s time to practice, practice, practice.
It may not happen the first time. Maybe you’re a natural! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, but enjoy the time and experiment with your partner.
