Published: January 19, 2023 · 3:47 pm
The practice of paying a fee for a woman has a long history dating back to ancient civilizations.
The bride price varies in Akwa Ibom depending on the time, age, region, and circumstances of each marriage, for example If the bride becomes pregnant before the wedding, the family gets compensated for the insult.
Source: Archibong Eyo
The pre-introduction stage is known locally as the Nkonk udok.
The local name for the introduction stage is Edidiong Ufok
Usoro Ndo is the name of the wedding ceremony.
Usio uyong, often known as the post-marriage period
Akwa Ibom Traditional Marriage List
The first step is COMPOUND CLEANERS(YOUTH) NKPO MKPARAWA.
- Two cases of beer (Star and Gulder)
- Minerals in two crates
- One cigarette pack (St Morris)
- One cigarette pack (Benson)
- Two Schnapps bottles
- 1 bottle of unauthorized gin (kai-kai)
- 1 tobacco plant
- 1 leather ball for cash alone in the amount of #2,500
Step 2: Father and mother knock on the door together.
- Six cases of Star beer
- Minerals in six crates
- Two crates each of small stout and maltina
- 4 liters of unauthorized gin (kai-kai)
- 2 tobacco heads and limestone
- a pair of palm wine rubbers (40 liters)
- Two containers of ground snuff
- Cola nuts in four bunches
- Six schnapps bottles
- 6 bottles of wine from Eva
- Only physical cash in the amount of #40,000
FAMILY IS STEP 3
- 1 large native goat
- 5 yam tubers
- 5 Star beer cartons and 1 tiny stout carton
- 3 crates of mineral water, 1 carton of various gins
- 2 wines from rubber trees (40 liters)
- 2 clusters of cola nuts
- 2 tobacco heads and limestone
- Two containers of ground snuff
- Only actual cash in the amount of #5,000
4th Step: Father
- One match with a cover.
- One bottle of whisky
- 1 bottle of triple-distilled whiskey
- one carton of whisky
- 10 beer cartons (small stout)
- Minerals in ten containers
- 10 English wine bottles
- 4 liters of hot beverage (kai-kai)
- 5 heads of tobacco with snuff water, limestone, and
- Five rubbers of wine
- 5 kola-nut buds
- 5 packs of cigarettes from St. Morris and Benson
- One president rapper piece (English made)
- Complete suit outfit with reading glasses
- 1 elegant chieftaincy outfit
- 1 black cap
- 1 wrist watch
- 1 English long sleeve shirt
- 1 excellent walking cane
- 1 pair of shoes with covers and sucking
- 1 hot pant
- 1 classy tie.
- One excellent English portfolio
- Envelope for #50.000
5th step: MOTHER
- One Raleigh bike
- 10 beer cartons
- 10 mineral crates
- 5 whiskey bottles
- English Damask fabric, one piece
- Lace-trimmed blouses and a headband canopy (Damask)
- Women’s shoes and a wristwatch (Gold)
- 1 set each of pants, earrings, and blouse in gold (dozen)
- A single underskirt (dozen)
- Hand bangles (Gold)
- 1 Frying Garri pot
- 1 covered Toronto basin
- 1 umbrella, and 1 handbag
- 1 set of spoons and plates for eating (dozen)
- A single palm oil mill
- One house knife in English
- Two pots, one large and one little (English made)
- 1 large kerosene rubber
- Two salt bags
- Two pepper bags
- Two bags of crab
- A pair of palm wine rubbers
- Two rice bags
- 1 bean sack
- 1 large palm oil frying stand
- One large bath towel, soap, pomade oil, a hand towel for washing, and an English basin (big one)
- one container of key soap
- 1 mineral box and #1000 for the cooker
- 1 English wax piece to cover the ground for the wife to match on
- 1 three-in-one whiskey to show the husband
- #5,000.00 to open the whiskey
- Envelope for only #40,000.00
Sixth step: Grandfather
- 1 English wax piece
- A case of five schnapps
- 2 – 3 in 1 whiskies
- Five English wine bottles
- 5-big bottles Gordien Gin dry
- 4 litres of hot beverage (kai-kai)
- Five cases of beer
- Five crates of soft drinks
- One bottle of whiskey
- Five tobacco plants with limestone and snuff water
- One bottle of Granded snuff
- A pair of palm wine rubbers
- Envelope of #10,000
Step 7: Shares of Grandmother (MKPO EKAETE)
- A single wax disc
- One carton of beer
- 1 crate of soft drink
- 1 bottle of unauthorized gin
- A single whiskey bottle
COOKER’S SHARES IN STEP 8 (MKPO MBON UTEM UDIA)
- One case of beer
- 1 crate of soft drink
- A single schnapps bottle
- 1 bottle of unauthorized gin
- 3 Key Bar Soap
- #1,500.00 in cash



